abort-shun

Teenagers who become mothers have grim prospects for the future. They are much more likely to leave of school; receive inadequate prenatal care; rely on public assistance to raise a child; develop health problems; or end up divorced. this is an unfortunate reality for most all of these women. they really do reap what they sow. they have a grim future because they go into motherhood un prepared and inexperienced. they never expect to become pregnant so they never take the precautions that they should. when they do though they are like a deer in the head lights. meaning they don't know what the heck to do and either get a job and neglect their school and child or care for the child and fail out of school or just give up on all of it. they eventually become everyones problem when they go onto well-fair and receive our money that we have worked for to earn. the children of these mothers do not develop like a child does who has a father. the sad fact is that usually less then 25% of these women get married, meaning no Papa... this puts all of the financial burdens on the mother. this takes the mother away from the child preventing the very important developmental part of raising a child. the fact that the mother caries this burden now also means that the mother might or will probably start to show resentment towards the child for taking away her dreams and life. this can cause unbelievable psychological damage for a young child. i can kind of relate to this topic. I do NOT have a child but my cousin has 5 illigetiment children now and she is only 28 years old. my grandparents were left to take care of them and she still parties and hasn't learned from any of this. she has been divorced 3 times and still jumps from guy to guy. i believe that sex should wait until after marriage because by then you will have a somewhat stable relationship at least and you will know what you are getting yourself into. this is why teenage women who get pregnant will most likely live a grim life.